Does you child hate reading? Is it a constant battle to get through reading practice every day? Or, if you have an older child with no interest in reading, do you worry about what they’re missing out on?
The benefits of reading often are many. While reading, kids soak up information, new vocabulary, and correct spelling. Readers become better writers as they absorb proper sentence structure and other elements of writing.
Not only that, frequent reading exposes children to worlds and experiences outside of themselves. They are able to see things through someone else’s eyes, helping them build empathy.
Along with these benefits, kids who read often tend to do better educationally than their peers who don’t, so it’s natural for us to want our kids to be readers. But what happens if they don’t enjoy reading or actively refuse to read?
How do you help your child go from a non-reader to a bookworm?
If you want to help your child develop a love of reading, try implementing some of the following strategies and see what a difference they can make.
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Make Family Read Alouds A Daily Activity
If you want your child to love reading, the first step is to help them see reading as a fun activity. Whether it’s a regular part of your bedtime routine or a special time during the day, make sure you’re reading aloud every day.
This applies to young kids as well as kids who can read on their own.
Reading aloud is hugely beneficial to kids of all ages. They are able to have exposure to material above their reading level this way, and they’re able to become immersed in the story without having to struggle to get through the words.
Find a Series to Get Hooked On
There is a certain age range for kids- usually from around 8-11- where kids can really latch on to characters in books. The character or characters start to become their friends, and they just have to keep reading to find out what will happen to them and to have that connection.
Once they’ve been hooked, they will devour every book in the series about that character.
If you can help your reluctant reader find a character they love, it may just start them on the path to regular reading.
For my daughter, who struggled to enjoy reading for years, the Jasmine Toguchi series switched something on for her. She saw herself in the spunky Japanese-American character, and she wanted to read every book in the series to become submerged in Jasmine’s life and experiences.
Once she read through the series, she had developed the confidence that she could read and discovered the joy of reading for pleasure instead of practice.
After that, it was just a matter of finding the next series for her to get excited about, which she found in the Maryellen books from the American Girl Doll series.
My son didn’t have the same dislike for reading, but he also didn’t have the passion for reading that I wanted him to have.
He enjoyed the Magic Tree House series and would read them through with some nudges from me. For him, though, the next tip did wonders. If you try to get your child into a series and it doesn’t work, graphic novels might do the trick.
Give Graphic Novels a Try
Sometimes a whole page of text can be intimidating to kids who haven’t gotten into reading yet. A great alternative to jumping straight into chapter books is graphic novels. The amount and the quality of graphic novels coming out now means there is something for everyone.
For the uninitiated, these are not the super hero comics that may come to mind when you hear graphic novel. There are graphic novels for every type of kid that will fit whatever they’re interested in. You can find them at every reading level, from emerging reader to the middle school years and beyond.
For both of my oldest kids, the Wings of Fire graphic novels have become an OBSESSION.
What’s great is that it has a whole series of chapter books that are slowly being made into graphic novels. So far, only books 1-4 have been made into graphic novels.
Because they got hooked on the characters, they’ve gone on to devour the chapter books which are several grade levels higher than most books they read.
For a compilation of graphic novels to suit any kids, check out my Pinterest board dedicated to graphic novels.
Watch the Movie
Read the book then watch the movie after. This can be with read alouds or books that your child has read on his own. Being able to watch the movie after finishing the book not only makes things more fun, it will also help your child love the book that much more.
If you get into the habit of watching the film version of a book after reading it, you might find there is another unexpected benefit.
Each time my kids watch a movie after reading the book, they notice that the movie leaves out (sometimes important!) parts of the book or changes things. The details are never as rich as in the book and parts are left out to keep the movie within a certain timeframe.
If they don’t pick up on this themselves, try pointing it out or asking questions to see if they’ll notice this. My kids find this is true most of the time, so they always want to read the book before watching the movie to get more of the details.
Offer Reading Incentives
Whether your child loves setting goals or just needs a little bribe (hey, you gotta do what you gotta do), offering an incentive to read can be something that gets the ball rolling.
In our house during the time I was dealing with a child who didn’t enjoy reading, every finished book meant a celebratory sleepover at Grandma’s house. This was enough to keep my reluctant reader going even when she felt like giving up.
This could look different for you. Instead of aiming for a finished book, you could reward your child for reading 10 minutes each day. Adjust the goals to meet the needs and abilities of your child, whether it’s a target of one page, one chapter, one book, or a certain number of books to get some type of reward.
A reading chart is a great way to keep track of reading progress and a wonderful visual representation of all your child’s hard work.
So whether it’s a fun activity, a toy, or a trip to the ice cream shop, rewarding reading can help kids keep going when they want to quit and will also help them associate reading with fun.
Let Them Break the Rules
This one might be controversial. As long as my kids are in bed and reading, they can stay up for however long they want.
This might not work for kids who have to wake up for school, but it’s doable for homeschoolers who can sleep in when necessary.
My kids love to be able to lay in bed with a little reading lamp and read past bedtime. It’s a quiet time with no distractions AND they feel like they’re getting away with something.
Letting them do this has increased the amount of reading they get in each day. This strengthens their reading skills and helps them to get more into their books than if they were just able to read here and there during the day.
This has led to more confidence in reading and a deeper love of the books they’re reading.
So if you’re comfortable with adjusting bedtime and wake up times, letting kids stay up late to read can be a really good way to turn your kids into lifelong readers.
Set a Good Example
The last tip to help your reluctant reader become a bookworm is to model bookworm behavior!
I’ve written before about the power of modeling the behaviors we want our kids to adapt in my post about creating a learning rich environment. Just like encouraging kids to learn, modeling good reading habits plays a major role in whether or not your kids will love to read.
You hold so much power as a parent. Your kids internalize everything they see you do.
If you eat junk food all the time, chances are they will too. If you make a point to stay active and participate in sports, your kids will most likely emulate this behavior.
Your kids look to you to set an example, so if they see you spending time each day reading they will pick up on that.
Helping Your Reluctant Reader
If you want to help your reluctant reader grow into a voracious reader, give some of these tips a try. I know they made a huge difference for my struggling reader and they can make a difference in your family too!
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